For years and years, I have tried not to be self-confident, because I have always been scared of what the repercussions of that would be.
But, after a couple of years of really looking within myself and figuring out who I am, I know now, that I am confident in who I am. I may not know all the ins and outs of who I am, as I know I am trying to figure that out still, but I do want to make it clear that I am now a confident woman. (Just to clarify this by no means mean that I am confident 24/7).
I know what I want, I know what I don’t want in my life. I know what I love, and I know what I do not love. I know that I love my life, I love my Husband, I love the area we live in, and house we have bought together.
I know that sometimes my Instagram, and my photos, always look so ‘put together’, but I PROMISE you that 99% of the time I am a massive sloth sat at home in my Pj’s with absolutely no makeup on. You can even see in these photos, red marks on my cheeks. These are lipstick marks from the product that got in my hair. Not everything has to be perfect, to be beautiful – to you.
If you don’t feel like yourself right now, that Is ok. The world is in such a weird place, that it is making us feel off. An unbalanced world, means an unbalanced mind sometimes… And that is ok. IT IS NORMAL.
I have an amazing husband that has made me realise my potential, beauty, intellect and style. He has moulded me into a person that I now LOVE. He makes me feel confident and beautiful every day, and I love him more and more for it.
You don’t need someone else to tell you, to make you feel loved, and beautiful. I did.. and thats just how my journey goes. Not everyone is the same, and that makes us all individually unique.
To those who may not need it, or to those who may need it. I AM TELLING YOU THAT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
It is true, what they say, that beauty comes in many forms, but it starts by being the person you are inside, on the outside as well.
Don’t sell yourself short of the person that you are. Life is way too short guys, We are growing everyday, and getting wiser everyday. Don’t waste your life away not believing in yourself. If you need to do some changing? Then change. I know that you can do anything that you put your mind to, because YOU CAN DO IT.
Remember, to be confident in your abilities. Sometimes, its the confidence that ends up being the aid to our ability itself. Don’t be shy. Do things that are out of your comfort zone, but do it in a way that builds your confidence. If its too much you will feel it, and don’t go there yet. Build your confidence in other areas so that you can feel strong.
Sometimes, the belief that we have in ourselves, no matter how small, can be the diamond that is shining but is just slightly covered by fear.
Allow yourself to become the person you want to be.